Many people wonder whether or not they have social anxiety disorder. Just because you get nervous from time to time before a social event or speaking engagement doesn’t necessarily mean you have the disorder. Here are some questions to ask yourself to determine whether or not you have the disease:
1. Do you have persistent fears before a social situation that you will embarrass yourself and that “everyone will be watching you”?
2. Do you get increasingly nervous in the midst of social interactions? Or does the anxiety dissipate once you get used to the situation?
3. Do you believe or have you been told that your fear of social interactions and performance is excessive and unreasonable compared to others?
4. Do you find yourself avoiding social or performance situations rather than enduring the anxiety that accompanies them?
5. Do your fears increase in anticipation of most social situations or are they triggered by just a few specific situations such as public speaking or a job interview?
Obviously, these questions are not exhaustive when it comes to diagnosing social anxiety disorder. But, if you answered yes to at least three of them you might have the disorder. If you suspect you have social anxiety disorder seek medical advice as soon as possible. Don’t get discouraged! Remember, the disease is very treatable.
July 21st, 2008 at 1:36 pm
In fact I never leave the house unless i have to, bot even into the garden as one of the neighbours hurled abuse at me last time. Why? I dont know. I dont know WHAT it is that makes people instinctively dislike me. Even when I do make the effort to be friendly and go out of my way to overcome my own shyness and other people’s own thing, it invariably goes downhill.
Or worse, they pretend to like you but are actually talking ill of you behind your back. (like that neighbour; as far as i was aware we were ‘okay’ -i always treat him and everyone else with respect and avoid going out as much as possible -but out of the blue he starts swearing at me, and i realise he never was friendly at all.
But it can’t be the whole world that’s wrong, it must be me.
So; what’s wrong with me?
July 21st, 2008 at 1:36 pm
ps. sorry about spelling errors. This comment box is rubbish